"Elusiveness is not nearly as appealing as it may seem; it’s a blaring insecurity. More often than not, people will tire of the struggle of wading through shallowness, trying to “figure” you out, and will turn to the comfort of vulnerability, honesty, & depth. Ambiguity leaves a huge, gaping space for assumption, mistrust, paranoia, and speculation. And all the while you proclaim that people are “hating” on you, when the truth is, they just don’t care to understand you anymore."